#HELP I need a melody to my song

Man of my heart

I know that he hurt you

When he left you

I know that he broke you

When he didn’t call you

Visit,

Or give himself up for you

But here you are now

Healing and growing

Stronger

Stronger

Stronger

All you got to do is

pick up, stir it up

breathe

and fight, fight, fight it out

I know that she hurt you

When she let him

Be the father to you

Be the man you needed

I know that she hurt you

But here you are now

Healing and growing

Stronger

Stronger

Stronger

All you got to do is

pick up, stir it up

breathe

and fight, fight, fight it out

Young boy,

holding it down

Young son,

Working too hard

Young man,

saving his family

Oh I know that they hurt you

You deserved more

But here you are now

Grown

Strong

Damn straight

You are the man

I know that he hurt you

I know that she hurt you

But here you are now

Grown

Strong

Damn straight

You are the man

You are the man of my heart

Now, now

Oh oh oh

I know that they hurt you

But here you are now

Grown

Strong

Damn straight

You are the man

You are the man of my heart now.

The Art of Compromise (WAR)

Compromise is not an art between you and your spouse. Compromise is an art between you, Jesus and God with help from the Holy Spirit. It is what Jesus did in the garden of Gethsemane where He proclaimed through bloody sweat-‘not my will but yours’. It is not the will of your husband nor wife that you should surrender to-it is the will of God.  Surrender to the excruciating pain that accompanies the blow to your ego; swallow the pain that comes with the sugar-coated insult that comes from the one you purport to love; cover that ish with love instead of pouring and hurling hateful attacks; uncover your vulnerability by shedding tears and showing your scars than masking your hurt with anger and a tough immovable exterior (this is not a body-building contest; it’s a spirit strengthening ordeal); dodge the trap of rhetoric and refuse to answer those questions that will only destroy your relationship if answered, and when one washes their hands off the case/issue at handà be wise enough to let them. Stop wagging that finger and getting in their face pushing them to speak.  Don’t lose it! Don’t bring the in-laws into the equation! Carry the ish out of that cross. Go to Golgotha and be hung on the cross for the sake of your relationship. When they are done crucifying you and you are waiting to die-cry out to the Lord and say ‘forgive them Father, they know not what they are doing.’ Before the night falls, darkness will come before its time, the curtain in the temple will tear in half and your actions will be justified because his/her eyes will be open to his/her foolishness and God’s will will be done. It may take 3 days to recover from the storm but as sure as Jesus rose, this too will pass. Hang in there.

Anti-hate! Anti-corruption!

if you can't control what goes on under your own roof-what makes you think you can control what is under God's roof? Tired of people with 'no tolerance' policy and 'burn them' stance! You can't penalize those who are stealing money from the masses by giving themselves high salaries and taking food and education away from the next generation but you are the first ones in line talking about burning people who don't share the same preferences as you.  We are all guilty yet we are choosing yardsticks that can only measure others' morals in terms of our own which we rank to our favour anyway-ranging from not2bad to iwilldobetternexttime but not extending the same grace to others. Its so much easier to police morals and Biblebash these days because everyone has their 2 cents on it. What would Jesus do I wonder? I really need to know because what I see on these streets- I don't know man. I don't think that would be His response.  Unless you are perfect, don't be picking up stones. If you don't know->don't throw shade/stones or whatever......I am not pro-anything, I am just on the #lovethyneighbour #pickyourbattles team. You pick your battles and God decides the victory. Standing for something doesn't mean kill the other team. Push your agenda if you are an avid marketer but win with respect to the living and the unmarginalised. Oh i don't know...let's just stop killing/hating each other to prove our points/strength.